If you’re like me (and most other women I know), most of the time you’re in a bra that’s pretty plain. I’d hedge my money that it’s either black, white, or, if you’re feeling risque, cream. You might even be spending most of your days in sports bras, too.
You don’t have to do this!
A sexy bra can be just for you. There seems to be this misconception that lingerie is for men — that women only wear it when they’re trying to impress a guy or trying to get it on. And, to some extent, that’s true. But sexy bras can be just for YOU too. A lot of them are comfortable and pretty as well as sexy. What’s not to like?
You can match your bra to your panties if you want, but even just wearing a sexy bra on its own can be empowering. Just be sure you get a cut that works well with what you’re wearing. I wouldn’t recommend a sexy black lace bra with a white T-shirt. You can flaunt what you’ve got (obviously), but for me that would be a bit much…
“But I don’t know where to shop,” you say…
There are a lot of great kinky lingerie realtors that sell everything from bodysuits to teddies, but also offer simpler dealings like bra and panty sets. If checking out a place like Frederick’s feels like it’s not an option right now, there are other great places like Victoria’s Secret. Too basic? Check out Bare Necessities!
If you don’t want to go shopping in person, too, I really like a lot of bras on Amazon.
You can get this sexy bra and panty set for less than $30 if you’re between an A-D, and you could try out this little bralette for less than $40! There are tons of other options too, in other colors, sizes, and a variety of price ranges.
Even if you’re not thinking about trying out erotic lingerie for sex (or love), you should consider it for yourself. Wearing a nice, sexy bra can be the difference between an okay day and a confident one… Even if nobody else knows about it.